​​“I am truly moved by the potential of the human heart to love, care and nurture the heart of others. I have worked with thousands of individuals. I have seen couples in despair find and reclaim their deep friendship and passionate love. I have witnessed longing and loneliness be replaced by thriving connection with friends and intimate partnerships.” ~ Tahil Gesyuk
 

The approach
With sensitivity and mastery developed over 20 years of coaching experience you are supported with dignity,respect and appreciation around issues and challenges you are both going through. 
What is often covered in the five core sessions
  • Session 1 Setting The Space To Grow
Establishing context of safety and respect
Getting clear of what wants to grow and does not have space to do so

  • Session 2 Acknowledging Challenge
Establishing what could be relied on and what cannot
Understanding coping and defense mechanisms
Establishing team work as a couple

  • Session 3 Sourcing resources
Perspective shifting
Inquiry guide

  • Session 4  Paying It Forward
Sharing into the coupling
Sharing the coupling into community
Random acts of beauty senseless acts of kindness

  • Session 5 Recontextualizing Family
Clearing unfinished family matters


The outcome
Many couples experience
  • Re awakened passion in deeper ways than previously thought possible
  • Break throughs in relationship crises through loving mediation
  • Greater skills in rapport, communication,and a deepening of secure attachment
  • A sense of wellbeing in there couple hood
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Men's Work

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Men's Circles​
  • This is more than a support group or sharing circle we go beyond...into deep inquiry through the art of grocking and somatic metaphor as well as truth seeking. We explore masculinity and what it is to be a man in modern times. We explore many topics naturally that come up for men through four contexts rapport,challenge, sourcing, and purpose. Wisdom centered men come together in this brotherhood of support, insight and growth at Heart Source in Berkeley.  Circle of Men will come together once a month on every 2nd Monday of the month (in person at HeartSource)4th Monday
  • (On line) Share and invite man whom you wish to deepen in camaraderie.

    I come to you open in growth and learning. With an eclectic background and training in life, relationship and health counseling, neurolinguistic programming, conversational hypnosis, family and systemic constellation work,somatic and energetic healing.

    I invite you to join the  Circle of Men to lend your wisdom, insight, and courage. We create a safe container to experience our pain,celebration, And all the life that happens within and around it.

    Register
    We meet once per month in person and once per month online with Zoom meetings:
    ~ In-person circles meet every 2nd Monday @7pm at Heart Source in Berkeley.
    ~ Online circles meet every 4th Monday (    For the month May we are meeting on Thursday 25th @6pmPST)

    Please sign up with the button below... 
    Looking forward to seeing you in the circles!



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